My man can’t get hard

What can I do to help my lover get hard before we have sex?

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Erection Changes After Age 50

If what you know about erections in older men comes from television Viagra ads, you don’t know the whole story. Here it is: ED means no erections from masturbation. According to the American Urological Association, erectile dysfunction (ED) is “the inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for satisfactory sexual performance.” Huh? That’s absurdly [...]

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My Penis Not Firm

DEAR SIR, I’M NOW 42 WITH 2 KIDS. SINCE LAST YEAR, I’VE BEEN FACING A SEX PROBLEM. MY PENIS IS NOT VERY FIRM. I’VE USED TOBACCO REGULARLY SINCE THE LAST 20 YEARS. PLEASE HELP ME.

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My Sexual Failure

I’m a married man, and recently I met a woman who became my girl friend. We met at a hotel and she wanted to have sex but I could not do it—no erection. I have not had sex with anyone else other than my wife in my whole life. I enjoy sex so much. What [...]

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Penis question

I am a man over 40 facing a penis problem. My penis is always soft. If I get excited and want to have sex, then my penis does not get erected. Sometimes it does but only occasionally. Why? I want my penis big and hard at the time of sex when my sex partner is [...]

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19 year old performance anxiety ED

Last year I had sex with a girl who had a reputation for being with a lot of guys in my school and word was she gossiped about it after. While having sex, I was extremely nervous (in my head), unsure if I would please her, or if she would tell people my dick was [...]

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No erection

I want to help my friend. He his 40 years old and can’t have erections.

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Boyfriend unable to sustain erection

I am 33 & my ‘new’ boyfriend is 43. I love him a lot and think the world of him. However, lately his erectile dysfunction is creating problems in our relationship. He is amazing at all non-intercourse sex but the problem comes with intercourse. He cannot seem to ‘find’ his way, I help guide him. [...]

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Intercourse problem: Erectile dysfunction AND Premature Ejaculation

I am 53 years old. I find my organ not erecting smartly or lasting long. I discharge very prematurely. I have full desire but can’t carry on as I wish. Can you help?

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I’m 70 and having problems

I’m over 70 and still have strong sexual desires. My physical responses don’t come close to matching my mental desires. The “used to be” almost instant erections and 20 minutes until ejaculation are a thing of the past. It’s more like: half to three quarters of an erection, that goes off and on for 30 [...]

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