Mention strap-on harnesses fitted with dildos, and if people are familiar with them at all, most think of girl-girl scenes in porn videos. The actress wearing the harness plays at being a man, revels in having a pretend penis, and uses it enthusiastically to have intercourse with the other actress. Many lesbian lovers enjoy strap-on sex—but this variation on lovemaking is not just for lesbians, and not just about women playing at being men. Many heterosexual couples also enjoy strap-on play, as do some gay male lovers. Strap-on sex can be fun for anyone—if you’re inclined to play that way. With a little erotic imagination, strap-ons can add novelty, excitement, playfulness—and deeper intimacy—to any interested couple’s relationship.

In this article:

• What Is A Strap-On?
• 7 Reasons Why Strap-Ons Are a Turn-On
• 3 Myths About Strap-Ons
• Hitching Up: Everything You Need to Know About Strap-On Harnesses
• Fitting Your Harness with the Right Dildo(s)
• 10 Suggestions for Strap-On Enjoyment

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