Common beliefs about erection, all false:

• Erection is something men “achieve.”
• Sex is a performance.
• Men are sex machines, always ready, always hard.
• During sex, you get only one chance at erection. If it wilts, sex is over, and you’re a failure.
• I blew it last time. I’ll never get it up again.
• When I can’t get hard, she says it doesn’t matter. She’s lying.
• If a man can’t raise an erection, the woman can’t be sexually satisfied.
• If a man can’t get an erection, he can’t come.
• If I  can’t get hard, she’ll leave me.
• Intercourse requires a rigid erection.
• Lovemaking is impossible without an erection.
• With age, all men develop ED.