Your sex life isn’t exactly boring, but it’s not fireworks either, not like it was in the early days of your relationship. Perhaps you’re in a sexual rut. But even if you’re not, maybe your groove feels like it’s headed in that direction. Maybe you’ve been fantasizing about trying some variations to keep things fresh and exciting—perhaps some lingerie, or a sex toy, or something a little kinky. But you’re not sure how your honey will react to your ideas.

In this article:

• It’s Difficult to Request Any Change, Sexual or Not
• Try Some New Things Out of Bed
• Take Turns Arranging “Surprise Dates.”
• Make Strategic Use of Birthdays, Anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day
• Why Hotels Often Spur Erotic Novelty
• Lubricants Can Be Gateways to Sexual Novelty
• Be Patient
• Half a Loaf Is Better Than None.

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