Compared with men, it takes most women longer to feel erotically warmed up enough to enjoy breast and genital fondling and intercourse (if the sex involves it). How much longer? According to women sex experts, at least 30 minutes. How should men spend that warm-up time? Very sensually.

Men interested in advanced erotic tips for caressing women might:

• Ask for some coaching.
• Invite her to play with a magic word.
• Beware of tickling.
• Appreciate the subtle art of kissing.
• Be gentle with her breasts.
• Focus on leisurely, playful, whole-body sensuality.
• Treat her genitals very gently.
• Put her in control of intercourse.
• Appreciate afterglow.
• Watch a unique video that combines all these suggestions—and more—into powerfully erotic lovemaking.