I don’t have great desire for sex. Quite often I go soft in the middle of it. It seems once in a month is fine for me, though my partner wants 2 or 3 times in a week. I  can’t keep up.
It’s also frustrating when I hear of husbands doing 2 or 3 times in a night.
Its even more frustrating to hear some of my friends of my age can go whole night.
And I easily get bored with same woman. I know it’s happening due to the weakness of my overall sexual health. I am 40 and in good health. Please help.

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Hi, I’m 43 and my husband is 45. Happily married for over 20 years. We’ve alway had great sex at least 4-5 times per week. He’s healthy, doesn’t smoke, drinks occasionally, plays hockey regularly, our kids are 23, 14, 12. My problem is that I’d like to have sex with him even more often: 2-3 per day every day. It doesn’t have to be a penetration. Oral sex is great too. I look at him and I become wet. When I tell my husband, he says he can’t keep up with me. What should I do? I want him to want me as much as I do. Please help.

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Three days ago, I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend who is 22 yrs old. Both of us are virgins. While having sex, i did not go deep inside her but slightly inserted inside, she did not bleed while having sex , which shows that i didn’t even break the tightness. But i was rubbing my penis on her vagina and I was careful while finishing by ejaculating outside her vagina…  Her period should have happened yesterday, but didn’t. I  worried that she would become pregnant so I suggested that she take iPill . She took it roughly 50 hrs after sex, i.e. with in 72 hrs of our sex. She had a little white bleed  and has tiredness, back pain …but her period is still delayed …. plz help me, we both are scared about it …. is there any chances of pregnancy & does iPill work at this stage? Plzzz plzzz plzz answer my question.

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What can I do to help my lover get hard before we have sex?

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I am at 38 yrs old and my wife is 34 and obese. The problem is that during foreplay she gets wet enough but after penetration she gets dry. Consequently it becomes painful to carry on. So we depend on lubricant. With lubes she comes faster than usual! I tried to figure out the solution. Could this be due to my small manhood with thinner grith? Or does her bulky body prevents her from being wet for long time? She has enough sexual desire.
Please help.

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I am a male, 65 years young, that got infected by my second wife who failed to tell me during our 8 year marriage that she was HIV positive. I was tested before the marriage and was negative. I only found out when she was diagnosed with AIDS 11 days before she died. What are the statistics/numbers of the danger from unprotected sexual intercourse with an infected woman? I know there have been study groups of heterosexuals and wondered what % actually got infected? I have had undetectable viral load and t-cells 575-675 for 12 years. I also had a vasectomy in 1971. Do you have numbers to share?

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You stated in your AARP article about STI’s in older adults that you “might never have sex” with a partner if she was infected. You said you’d talk with several doctors. I guess you know it is so much more difficult for a positive female to pass to the male than the other way around. I guess you also know that with a suppressed virus, undetectable viral load, and good t-cell counts, having had a vasectomy before 30 years before being tested positive, and always using condoms during intercourse, is SAFE SEX. I became infected from my wife who was infected with blood transfusions around 1981. She did not know she was infected until 2000 and that is when I was also tested positive. I lost her in 2000 and have been searching for a partner that understands that with proper use of condoms, we can still have safe, sexual intercourse.

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My name is Dr. Beth Fisher and I own Senior Medical Cannabis, an educational site for seniors who currently use or are interested in using medical Cannabis (where it’s legal). I am writing a blog post on Senior Sex: Cannabis vs. Pharmaceuticals. And YES, this is a serious question.

1) My seniors on Facebook (Senior Medical Cannabis) who usually are very vocal about many topics, are unusually silent on this topic. What is your take on this?

2) Any thoughts on my topic? I will inform them of the pharmaceuticals that lower libido, then discuss homeostasis when Cannabis is used, which typically results in a higher libido.

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I am 60 years old and I have no sex drive. I do not want to be touched or fondled. It’s ok for my husband to wrap his arm around me as long as he doesn’t grab my breast. We still hold hands, but he insists on brushing against my breasts in public and saying, “Oh, I like that,” and that is offensive to me. He also pulls up my skirt or dress when I sit down claiming he likes my legs. They aren’t bad for a 60 year old, but I’m not 25 or 30 anymore. I feel at my age a little more dignity needs to be practiced, especially in public. I also feel my morals should be respected to a degree. Could he be having problems accepting the fact that he is aging? How do I deal with all of this?

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I am 25 and my husband is 30. When I ask him for sex, 60 percent of the time, he refuses. Why?

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