“You Want WHAT?!” Asking for New Sex Moves

Are you bored with your sexual routine? Have you fantasized about trying something new, but hesitated to ask because you can’t find the words? Asking for any change in a relationship means taking a risk. But asking for new sex moves and sexual changes can be paralyzing. You lover might think you’re more dissatisfied that you really are. Or accuse you of being “demanding” or “weird” or “perverted.” So how do you get what you want —or at least come close to it? It may not be as difficult as you fear. More »»

Sexual Lubricants — Not Just for Women

Mention intimate, sexual lubricants, and most people envision older women bothered by vaginal dryness. Lubes are, indeed, a quick, easy, inexpensive fix for dryness, but they’re much more. Lubricants boost the pleasure of sex to lovers of all ages—including men. “Wetter is better for men as well as women,” says Palo Alto, California, sex therapist Marty Klein, Ph.D., “I recommend lube for all couples every time.” More »»

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Men Should Heed Women’s Sexual Wisdom

If men made love the way most women prefer, both sexes would feel more sexually fulfilled—and many relationships would improve out of bed as well as between the sheets If men made love the way most women prefer, women would receive the leisurely, playful, massage-inspired, whole-body sensuality every sex survey shows they want. Meanwhile, if […]